A gentleman or a jealousy?

[ScarletDelaney94]

I went to races the other week with some male friends. I wore a stunning dress which was pretty low at the front and felt amazing. One of them decided to take his jacket off and put it over my shoulders. It wasn't even cold. Was he just being a gentleman or was he jealous of the other lads giving me attention and wanted me to cover up?

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It was end of February this year

Pmsl

Marking his territory. Did you immediately remove it and hand it back? If not why not?

It's not his place to 'think' you are cold. He could have politely asked it you wanted his jacket but just putting on would reallly annoy me.

Not jealousy but maybe laying claim to you because of the hook-up.

How is it 'nice'?

I think there are more than two options here, but his motive, for whatever reason, didn't fit your needs. So then the questing is what did you do? Did you sit in a jacket you didn't want, or than m thank him and give it back? A man putting a garment on me would have led to a discussion!

Could mean anything really. Hard to say without full contest, or without knowing what he/you said and how you reacted to him afterwards.

Bit strange to be questioning it like this in the aftermath though. I have male friends and if one of them did that I'd just be like "what are you doing that for?". He'd respond. Issue dealt with. Surely if you're friends, you could have just asked him?

So, did you immediately give him back his jacket?

Also, if this happened in February, why are you asking about it now?

No I previously hooked up with him in February but he did that on Saturday.

Ah, I see.

So, if you didn’t want the jacket, did you take it off and give it back?

If a bloke put his coat on me without any prior conversation about being cold/offering me his jacket then I’d be saying “I am not a coat-hanger” and handing it back after rifling through the pockets for his wallet.

It would be a bit too … presumptuous? for my liking but, there we are.