I have known this woman for almost 10 years.. She has two children which I've been there for over the years, babysat, bought them bday/Christmas presents etc. She has mental health problems and I've always been there to listen to her. It was getting to the point she was ringing me nearly everyday whilst at work which started to annoy me. I have always felt like her life was on my shoulders, like she was a burden on me. But I went through a traumatic birth beginning of last month, and was high on morphine. She messaged me asking why I had a c section. I was about to reply when the nurse came in to talk to me, so I decided to reply to her when she had left. I got a text 10 minutes later from her saying can't be bothered texting back then don't even look at that message. I apogised to her and explained and said about my traumatic birth. I don't think she even read the message. We haven't spoken since and that was over a month ago now. Its been brilliant to be honest, I don't know why I used to pussyfoot around her, apologising for things and feel a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Her little daughters birthday is coming up middle of September. Boyfriend says I shouldn't message or send a card as she hasn't bothered with me. I know its not her child's fault but any advice? I am also regularly in contact with her sister and Mum so it's really hard.