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My partners Ex

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Mumlife4 · 22/08/2022 01:01

My partners ex (who he has kids with) is always creating issues. It's been a constant. Me and partner have been together for a few years (have our own child together) but I am still classed as the "new gf". There have been financial ties until recently but now it seems everytime she gets the chance she creates a new issue (this time about the children) to keep in contact. I do find her very bizarre, she is very jealous and constantly needs to know what we do and wants to always speak to my partner. Things eventually felt like they settled and resolved between them, and now she is back with new reasons.. I do understand her world has changed but she has a new partner and made the decision to end the relationship and my partner immediately agreed as he felt the same but when will she stop hanging on? I have seen her from afar and her behaviour...desperate to speak to my partner, but we have a child together, I don't understand when she will get the message he is only her ex and yes they have children together (I also have child from previous so I understand situations) but ties are cut apart from that. Alot of what she says is fabricated and she is mocked by her family for the way she is, she has a certain nickname (yes I feel bad for her but it's a reputation for constant lies) however it's becoming a little silly the excuses now but there then twisted to make my partner look bad... anyone else had this experience?

OP posts:
Hanstarlucky · 22/08/2022 10:53

How do you know she wants to know everything about what you both are doing?

what are the reasons they split up? Did you come onto the scene quite quickly after they broke up?

is it legitimate reasons she is contacting your partner?

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