A few years ago I met a man who I clicked with massively. I was in a relationship at the time and we worked together. Nothing happened and I stayed with my then partner.
Fast forward four years later and after an accidental pregnancy with someone new (who doesn’t want to be involved) I decided to carry on as I’m 36, and out of the blue this man pops up again. I’m 7 months pregnant. We started speaking largely about work and I presumed he was in a relationship as he suggested a networking lunch - very common in our industry. I agreed and thought little more of it than it would be nice to see him, however, this weekend he’s sent me many messages and photos of his weekend away and it’s now clear he sees this upcoming lunch as a date. If I had known this was what he meant initially I would have told him then that I was pregnant.
Obviously I need to tell him I’m pregnant. I feel so awkward about it and part of me has really enjoyed just chatting to him… this is going to make it stop though isn’t it … bit gutted and talk about rubbish timing!