I was raped by a person in my family when I was 17.
It turns out that this person was abused and a history of abuse on my mother side.
Before it happened I wasn't in a good place already and dropped out of college and I decided to move and live with my father as it happened in my mother's home. That person use to go there.
At that time I didn't tell my mum until later on and she couldn't believe it. Eventually a lot of the family did find out.
My dad's side doesn't know.
Today I had phone conversation with my mother she wants to visit family but that person lives near by. She is like but don't want to see him. But then she like I do want to go if I see him will say hi as what happened is in the past.
I said well you can say you don't want to see him to other family. Then she said sorry that why wanted to talk to you. I said no one else if it happened to so so daughter in family they never speak to them again.
Then I spoke to family member as they staying at my mother's and they kind of tried to mention this person as I asked for the others.
I feel like so much can happen it's brushed under the carpet. I don't care if that person served time for interfering with an ex gf kids and know as one of them. Family expected my mother
So am I wrong to be upset?