I am Devastated been out for coffee with my partner , and he went outside for a cigarette , I finished up and went out to see him and saw he was on e harmony, he jumped and Panicked , I could Hear it in his voice ( we met via online dating and eharmony a been taking money which I knew about ) but he was viewing a women with a dog , anyway he started waffling about it taking another payment .
I let it go when he got home he wanted to go on his vr set at mine which he cast to his phone for me to watch , so whilst I had the phone I started to look through it , he had no messages on message or what's app ( I guess deleted ?)
There was a dating app
I didn't recognise but it looked tinder ish swipe right where he commented telling girls they are beautiful .
And then I mange to log into e harmony ( he has auto login on) and he was talking to someone Called Jemma asking what she wanted in a man , and then pages and pages of compliments smiley faces to
Many a girl .
I confronted him but haven't told him exactly what I have seen .
He said he wouldn't do that but I know he has , I am just so scared as there is a lot riding on this .
I don't know how to handle this .