2 year old toddler together 7 years
Problems with dh started after baby. Issues with alcahol and weed. Have now Noticed a pattern every about 3 months of absolute explosion of anger, blame, Leaving us blaming me on everything, wild ideas, grandiosity. Telling me I'm trying to run his life and Tell him what to do. (Nothing major as far as I can see just day to day life with a toddler) and then guilt wanting to be a family wanting to come home make things right weeks later . Have had 2 of these big episodes. I have put up with it but am now questioning is it bpd bipolar or just an a hole I'm a fairly happy optimistic person and I know it cant be all on me. I work part time do everything for toddler. He is moody has lows every few weeks. Has been diagnosed with anxiety in the past. Were currently in another episode and im realising this pattern may never change as he does not think there's any issue and everything is my fault . Any experience of similar situations? I'm at a loss and going around in circles. I dont want to break up my family but aware it cannot continue. I don't know if he's ill or just a horrible person at times but im drained and realise now if its been going well to long something is usually brewing.