Hey lovely people. My partner and I have recently started couples therapy and it’s our first time. We have issues with communication. I am very emotional and he is very logical. If something upsets me I like to communicate that rather than let it build up whereas he just sees it as complaining. He is an entrepreneur and has been under a lot of pressure with new ventures since December last year which as a result has impacted the relationship for the best part of this year. I have been feeling emotionally disconnected for months. I miss him and I miss us. We haven’t seen each other in almost 4 weeks and we live 45 minutes away from each other. He has not told me he misses me or loves me in these weeks, unless it’s in response to what to me saying it (which I’ve dwindled down on) and honestly I just feel so hurt. I believe my attachment style is anxious and his is avoidant but I don’t know if this is me rationalising his behaviour or excusing it? It seems that he wants to have a few more therapy sessions before we spend time together again but it just makes me feel like packing the relationship in. I’m really struggling with the distance, both physically and emotionally but he seems to be getting on fine. Is it normal to spend time apart whilst in couples therapy?