It’s always my fault

[Mrsalone]

Every argument. Every disagreement. It’s somehow twisted to be all my fault. The level of blame and accusation and actually the level of dislike towards me is frightening.
We have 3DC. I feel like I can’t leave. Or can’t decide if leaving would be worse. (He is the primary carer. I work full time and he never has). I’m scared I would lose my children).
So how on earth do I stay sane?

See a solicitor re selling or could you buy him out of the house? For once, because yo7 aren’t married, this may work in your favour because you won’t have to pay him maintenance.