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abusive mother

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henry321 · 17/08/2022 13:59

My abusive mother died about 5 years ago but i am still suffering with anxiety from her abuse of me. She had dementia for the last 10 years and i had to go no contact before she passed away. I am scared she is somewhere in the after life waiting for me to get there so that the she can continue her abuse. Its making my life hell. I know this is irrational but don't know what to do. Having health issues at the moment so its got worse.

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CPL593H · 17/08/2022 14:11

henry321 · 17/08/2022 13:59

My abusive mother died about 5 years ago but i am still suffering with anxiety from her abuse of me. She had dementia for the last 10 years and i had to go no contact before she passed away. I am scared she is somewhere in the after life waiting for me to get there so that the she can continue her abuse. Its making my life hell. I know this is irrational but don't know what to do. Having health issues at the moment so its got worse.

@henry321 you've posted this in Site Stuff which is mainly for Mumsnet tech issues etc. If you report your own post you can ask them to move this to a board where it will get more replies? Flowers

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LilyMumsnet · 17/08/2022 17:56

Hi OP

We're so sorry for what you have experienced.

We're going to move your thread over to our relationships topic, as we think you're likely to get more support and advice there. Flowers

rooftopgardenspoppy · 17/08/2022 19:48

Hi OP. No one can know for sure if there is an afterlife or what happens there so please don't worry about it.

My father physically and mentally abused me and he hasn't come back to haunt me. I know it sounds crazy but I used to feel him around me in a positive way after he died.

godmum56 · 17/08/2022 19:49

henry321 · 17/08/2022 13:59

My abusive mother died about 5 years ago but i am still suffering with anxiety from her abuse of me. She had dementia for the last 10 years and i had to go no contact before she passed away. I am scared she is somewhere in the after life waiting for me to get there so that the she can continue her abuse. Its making my life hell. I know this is irrational but don't know what to do. Having health issues at the moment so its got worse.

Can you comfort yourself by thinking of her burning in hell?

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