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What are the legalities?

6 replies

Pegsonstrings · 16/08/2022 14:26

my ex who is and was really abusive, see my previous threads, has non stop been harassing me via his work email, via new fb profiles he sets up since I keep blocking him every time he sends me a message. I closed my WhatsApp as he was messaging me on there too.

now there is an open case on him regarding him and voyerismn, on me and now that he is using his work email to contact me, what would happen if I was to forward the email to his boss? I don’t want him to loose his job but for two years he has been hounding me, and I have never replied to any of his messages. Would I be in the wrong highlighting his misuse of his work email? I am positive that they are unaware he is a sexual perpetrator.

please be gentle and any advice would be great as this man isn’t giving up harassing me.

do I contact the police?

OP posts:
AbbieLexie · 16/08/2022 14:31

Police. ASAP

HirplesWithHaggis · 16/08/2022 14:32

Yes, contact the police. Also see about getting a restraining order/non-molestation order. Up to you if you want to inform his employer about using work email to abuse you too.

destiney · 16/08/2022 14:33

call the police OP. They will have a stern talking to him. He is harassing you and it's very frightening. Call the police now. Screenshot any evidence you have.

category12 · 16/08/2022 15:00

Yes, police rather than his work.

Might be worth getting support from from services dealing with harassment or stalking, like Paladin Paladin website

Pegsonstrings · 16/08/2022 15:19

Thanks again everyone. Will contact the police today

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PinotPony · 16/08/2022 16:37

The police can serve a harassment warning notice on him. That makes him aware that you consider his behaviour to be harassment. If he continues then you can report him and he won't be able to plead ignorance.

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