Am i unreasonable

[Headisrecked]

Minor argument tonight i was in the loo snd heard the door go for the grocery delivery, i came out thinking nobody had answered door but my youngest had, hubby was sitting in the living room, i gave out saying 5 people in this house and i have to get off the loo. So now im in the doghouse how dare i say something like that we had an argument after now iv tried to speak
to him 5 times and he is ignoring me. I feel i cant moan about anything but he goes into bad mood like i darent criticise!! Im venting really so tired of it all.

I can't stand people who sulk. I teach our 5 year old not to sulk.

Yes you should be able to moan about it.
But just wondering, if they had actually answered the door why did you need to get off the loo?

My son had answered the doir, he didnt move.

Sorry! I heard the asda man knock the door a few tumes so thought nobody answering, by the time i got through my son had answered, just tried to talk to him again no response.

My ex husband was like that. I couldn’t say anything that was in any shape or form a criticism of him.

In the end I couldn’t take it anymore.

This is clearly the tip of the proverbial iceberg.

Yes, he goes into a mood to train you not to criticise him in future for being a lazy twat.

Why are YOU in the doghouse? Just ignore him right back and don't do anything for him - don't cook for him, wash his clothes etc. When he cracks and asks why tell him you won't be doing stuff for someone who acts like a 5 year old every time he's challenged.

I think your spot on here!! Theres always an argument if i dare critizice anything about him, her then ties me in knots saying i tell lies etc… had enough to be honest

I hate sulkers, I know some people need time to process things after a big disagreements but sulking because he was a lazy sod is, at best childish, at worst abusive. I agree with @Twawmyarse in that he's trying to train you.