I have formed a strong friendship with a a man who created and runs a social activities group. He told me he gets nothing out of the group but does it to help others as he is passionate about helping people with social anxiety to help make friends.
He has said some women have asked him out but they are usually not his type and a lot older. He did date a woman a while back from the group and she got insecure and kept asking him if he fancies the women from the photos of events he hosted. She would also accuse him of setting up the group to date women and he said that is not the case. He did get possessive when a man in the group started talking to this woman he was dating and he would send him messages or have digs at his comments on group posts.
We have such a strong connection and it's highly likely we will become a couple. He said he still wants to go to the group when he gets a partner but his exes have all had a problem with him meeting new people through the group. I would never stop or restrict him from going to the group as he said it has helped him recently as his friends have all settled down and getting out has helped with some bereavement. I also admire that he wants to people.
I just can't help feel anxious sometimes that some of these women would throw themselves at him even though I should trust him. I am also still a member of social activities groups elsewhere and wonder if he would try and stop me going to those even though I have made some great friends.
Just wondered how people would feel their partner ran a social group?