This will be a long one and pretty outing, but I have no one to talk to in real life.
Been with partner 7 years, we have a two year old.
When I was around 38 weeks pregnant I started receiving texts saying he was cheating etc, I thought it was a couple of old friends who didn't like him trying to cause trouble as it made sense with other things going on back then, so I didn't believe the texts, although it certainly planted a seed.
I ended up becoming friends with this person (she was named in the texts I was being sent) as my partner and hers know each other.
Anyway, I've always had a gut feeling and it's just not fucking going away.
There have been other instances like I sent her a text which I never mentioned to him at all and he brought it up but made out I had told him - I didn't, so how else would he know? Only her.
Not long after I gave birth he went out with friends, in the morning I found a note ripped up he must have written when he came in drunk, I pieced it back together and it was addressed to her (by name only)
Last night I decided to watch their WhatsApp status (actually got the idea from MN) coming online And offline like clockwork one after another, I watched for around 30 mins and every time she came online then went offline he literally came on 1/2 mins later and so on and so forth. That can't just be a fucking coincidence can it?
I'm heartbroken, but uplifting if together for my wee one.
He is obviously denying it but I've ignored him messages and calls from last night and haven't heard from him at all today.
I'm not going crazy am I? That can't just be a fucking coincidence?
Sorry if it's a bit incoherent, I actually feel ill, can't think straight and can't stop shaking.