My ex and I had a number of issues, where both of us had our faults. He had anger management issues (especially when driving), he usually only wanted to go to the cinema or for food locally (and it was me who had to suggest or organise things to do, otherwise we would have just stayed home). He never liked cuddling or holding hands, never celebrated our anniversary and disliked Valentine’s Day. He also lasted ages in bed (like an hour) which I personally found too long, but he said this was normal for him. Despite both of our faults, we were together for 6 years and had a home together, so obviously we also had our good moments.
He’s now moved on quickly (2 months after we last had contact) and I know he is taking his new girlfriend to the cinema and for food, and they’re basically living together. I’m still in love with him and can’t stop thinking about him. The thought of them together makes me feel ill. I’m scared that he’s ‘righted his wrongs’ because I know that I’ve worked on my issues, and we could be great together if he has done the same.
Do you think it‘s possible that he has changed with this new girl?