If your husband

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Threw dinner in anger and a fork in your general direction what would you do?

Ltb, leave the bastard! Hope you are ok op.

Sorry, have reported for deletion

I meant, ltb

What happened, Op?
Are you safe?

Thank you both. I'm ok.

Yes I'm safe. Thank you for your concern.

Depends on what provoked it and how his behaviour is outside of this incident.

Context does matter. Doesn’t mean it’s right, what he did, but if he is a patient, decent person not prone to rages and he was pushed too far one time, it’s worth trying to work through.

But if anyone I didn’t know very well and over a long time did that I’d fucking walk out on them.

It would depend how out of character that was, if he was under immense strain through grief or something that might be different than if he was lashing out in an every day disagreement.
At the least I'd probably spend the night elsewhere and want a VERY constructive conversation about it before I moved on to considering what it meant for our relationship

I left my DP of 9 years for similar. I won’t have aggression or disrespect in my home. I hope you’re ok.

If this is out of the blue you must be very shaken. If it’s not, and this is normal behaviour for him, then in some ways that’s worse.

Thank you for the advice.

I do think a bit more context is needed. However, getting angry to the point where you're throwing things is never okay really, is it?