Posting on behalf of someone else.
'My partner and I have 4 children and have been together 7 years, we had a row and I asked him to leave so he went and stayed with family, we said we were both done with the relationship( although it's something that's said quite abit when we fallout) After a week we then sort things out and he's back home, he's then very defensive with his phone won't even allow it to be touched. I then catch him deleting messages and see it's of his ex partner that has been trying to get in contact for the past 7 years with him. He was talking to his ex partner, she's been trying to talk to him every few months and this time he was entertaining it. And his excuse for this was we were done so he was allowed to. He spoke to her only 2 days after we had fallen out! When I asked why he spoke to her he said he wanted to see how her children looked which was a bit of a concern because why would you want to see how your ex kids look. Then I am called controlling for being upset. How can he be with me so many years, claim to love me but after 2 days of us arguing he's already speaking to an ex partner?
Do I have a right to be frustrated?