Absolutely floored by ex’s reaction to nearly losing our baby

[shelfo]

Ex left a few weeks ago. I have been under huge stress as he won’t communicate about anything to do with our baby. I had stopped communication and then a few days later had a huge scare, had to go to hospital and didn’t know if the baby was ok for literally hours. I text him explaining and then called him in tears and said I need to talk about the baby, he hung up and haven’t heard from him since. Presumably he doesn’t actually care if his baby is dead or alive. It’s been a couple of days now and I’ve calmed down after the shock but I just can’t believe his reaction, no message nothing asking if we were ok.

I don’t know why I’m posting, just feel sick whenever I think about it.

I mean you broke up with him while pregnant with his child. That is a huge deal. You realise that right? He’s probably pretty angry about that.

He went from thinking he was going to raise his child to knowing he would be cut out it’s life at least half the time (probably more at least at first).

I know that’s meant to be acceptable these days but really given you instigated the breakup while pregnant with his child how much affection do you think he would have for you after that?

You have the right and the power to register your baby by yourself. If you allow him to come, YOU are giving by him equal parental rights and responsibilities. Think very seriously if you want to do that.

If he is that fussed, he can address it legally, but chances are he won't if he can't be bothered when you are upset because you nearly lost your baby 😔