My partner and I have a 6 year old son and due baby no2 in just 2 weeks. Recently we’ve not been getting along. He come in from work every day at 5 and sits on his phone or watches videos on there and don’t really make an effort to talk to me or our son. He’ll then disappear off to the bedroom for an hour then have a shower and come back into the family room and play his ps5 for the rest of the night. I feel like he don’t interact with our son, every time I do talk to him he’ll pause watch he’s watching and just makes me feel like we’re in the way. He goes to his friends house every Thursday straight after work and don’t come home until 9. Now they both are going to start the gym together 4 nights a week so he won’t be home until 7:30-8. He won’t see our son at all 5 days a week because by the time he comes our son will be in bed. I feel like I’m going to basically be a single parent 5 days a week. Saturdays my partner spends at his dads house so we don’t see him then either. He never wants to have date nights I always say shall we go out for dinner, cinema ect and it’s always no. The only time we actually go out as a family for a day out is 2 Sundays out of the month as that’s all he will allow.
I always support everything he dose and I’m happy for him if he wants to join the gym and have no problem with him going to his friends but I just wish he could compromise and go a few days a week just so I have some help during the week. Is anyone else in a similar situation