There are many underlying reasons but the main one is that our blended family just doesn't work. I was a completely single mum for years with DS before I got with DP and we have all tried so hard to make it work but it just doesn't.
I don't blame him or me, there is no abuse or toxicity. We just went blind into the situation and don't realise how hard step parenting was. To complicate it, we have a younger DD who adores the ground we both walk on and is very anxious and clingy to both of us. She's the main reason I've stayed but I have to leave for DS.
We are going ti try counselling but I've already checked out mentally. I haven't told DP that but deep down I know I have.
I feel so sad and depressed about the upheaval and pain that is coming for everyone.
Anyone else can empathise?