Wanting DH to be more adventurous in bedroom

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I’ve been with my DH for several years now. While I’ve always known that I’m more adventurous than him, I’ve recently found myself really eager to do some kinkier things in the bedroom.

DH is a great husband but is very definitely not someone who is naturally adventurous or kinky.

I’m interested in others’ experience of whether there is a way to “meet in the middle” and find some sort of compromise, or do I need to give up any hope of exploring that side of me?

Surely, you just talk to him or suggest something different.

What does he say when you do that?

I think if someone is not naturally adventurous in the bedroom, your in for a tricky conversation, but if the person is open to new ideas, you could suggest something at least, if was something simple like introducing a toy or a new position I think most ppl would probably like that, especially if they get to have more / better sex.

but if you looking to add another person/ go a club/ try pegging or something along those lines it might be more difficult sell