Looking for advice but please bare with me if this doesn’t make sense 😵💫 my partner & I have been together for almost 9 years and our DS turns 1 next week. All has been well although since DS was born of course intimacy isn’t as often as it used to be. I was on his phone searching for something to show him via the internet when I stumbled across a tab where he’d been clearly watching porn. Having spoke to my friends about this it’s apparently common which I accept and I’m not at all bothered about the whole concept of it, although the tricky thing is it’s gave me this weird yucky feeling and totally turned my stomach. To the point I’ve not went near him again since (like that). I’ve not yet confronted him about it as it makes me so uneasy and I’m still unsure my stance on it but I just can’t describe this weird creepy feeling I get from him now that I know he’s watched it. Since having my son I feel asif my self esteem has took a good kicking and the more I think about it this just adds to issues aswell. Does anyone know how to tackle this & if there’s any coming back from it? Tia 🙂
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.