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Wondering25 · 07/08/2022 13:09

Brief background. Saw someone for a few months last year who said he and his ex of 12 years had split up 6 months before. Things weren’t t working for me so I ended it. Kept in touch occasionally by text. A few months ago his ex’s daughter had a baby and he’s not allowed to see her. He says he ex, her family & friends are no longer speaking to him because he saw me! he’s texted a few times since and I’ve ignored him. Yesterday he texted again. Temped to reply but so annoyed he effectively blamed me for ex, etc not speaking to him anymore.
Any thoughts?

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OwlNoisesInHerFace · 07/08/2022 13:15

Nah, block and move on. Too much baggage.

Pinkbonbon · 07/08/2022 13:23

This sounds familiar. Have you wrote about this before? How do you know they won't let him see his kid? Let me guess, he told you. Sounds like a standard sob story to try get you to shag him.

I would message him to sod off and stop contacting you. And then once it's been read, block him.

Wondering25 · 07/08/2022 13:44

Thanks for the replies. I know I should ignore - not sure what’s making me think otherwise…

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Wondering25 · 07/08/2022 15:01

@Pinkbonbon he told me he’s not allowed to see the baby. Yes, he’s good a attention seeking stories.

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