Have posted here before for advice on my failing relationship. I have made the decision that it needs to end. We have been together 10 years, married 6. We have a 4yo and a 8m old baby.
The difficulty lies with the housing situation. We currently live in a 3bed house that my H's parents own. We pay monthly rent to them. My H works full time for the NHS and his salary is about 19k. I am about to finish my maternity leave and I work for a dentist part time, I earn about £600 a month. We claim universal credit and usually receive anything from £800-£1100 a month depending on actual salary received and childcare costs.
We haven't discussed what will happen with the house and the children as yet but I want to go into the conversation with some kind of idea/plan.
I think it is best if I move out, seeing as his parents own this house. But I would need to privately rent and I will be looking at £1200 a month for that, plus a deposit of around the same, which I absolutely do not have. I could afford to stay in this house and pay for it myself but somehow I don't think thats the best idea.
Just wondering if anyone has any advice for me, or has been in a similar situation, what did you do?