Me and OH have a 2 year old and an 8 month old. Since we had DD1 things haven't been 100%. He would sleep all day and for the first 3 months I felt like a single mum. We moved and thing started to improve for a while, we the suffered a miscarriage and decided then that we definitely wanted to have another baby. Things started to go downhill again so I decided to stop trying but it turned out I was already pregnant, which I was happy about and wouldn't change a thing.
Things continued to go downhill and still are more than a year on from this point. When we argue it's constantly my fault and he can never take any blame. He always seems to have a chip on his shoulder and by the end of the argument I find myself apologising just to get it to end as I start to feel intimidated and concerned that the children are hearing him swear at me and call me names. I have no money, no family that can help me so I feel really stuck.
It's gotten to the point that he chooses to sleep on the sofa and then blames me for 'feeling like he can't sleep in the bed'. I haven't been very intimate with him since our pregnancy with DD2 and I'm not sure if it's hormones that have continued with the breastfeeding or if it's because I'm not happy here anymore.
I feel stupid for even saying anything as I'm probably just being ridiculous, I just really need some advice... thanks!