Lingerie- turn up or change there?

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I’m out tonight and want to dress up for my fwb. I’ve been in a long term relationship and never dressed up before so I really want to do it as something new. He doesn’t know I’ll be dressing up and as I’m a novice need some advice!

Im talking bra, suspenders, stockings and thong so not just bra and knickers, do I wear them underneath normal clothes when going to his and take them off in the bathroom beforehand or do I get changed there?
If I go with it underneath he will see the bright red “socks” which I think would give the game away to early but then if I change there it will take a few minutes and I don’t want him to think I’m doing a number 2!!
What do people do?? Go with it underneath or change there?

Change when you get there. You'll be more comfortable that way, and nice and fresh. Enjoy xx

Bright red socks? You have lost me there a bit.😊. But changing into stocking and suspenders upon arrival, seems a bit odd to me.

My stockings are red so if I have jeans on over the top, when I take my shoes off it will look like I’m wearing red socks and he knows I’m a white/black sock only fan! Haha!

Put socks on over your tights then slip them off before the big reveal.

Wear them under clothes and put socks over your stockings but be warned that get up like that isn't comfortable and the stockings WILL detach from the suspenders so don't plan on doing much before the clothes come off!

Is go wearing it (depending how you are getting there). I did this to a FWB once. I had the lingerie on under a rain mac! Nothing else on, middle of the day. It was a very exciting drive to his (and unpacked clothes to go home in 😬
Enjoy!

I’m driving there. Problem is it’s a bit too warm for a long coat/jacket, I’ll end up melting.

Think I’ll pop socks on over my stockings.

I'd say forget jeans! wear a skirt with a split, he'll know but it won't be too early, he'll just be putty in your hands and desperate to get you somewhere more comfortable!

I'd wear them but wouldn't have jeans on! A long pretty summer dress is much more practical.

Also, heat of the moment, do you really want to go and get changed?

Socks over stockings? Massively uncomfortable.

The stockings are bright red, I can’t put a dress on as no way am I going out in public with red stockings on show haha

What kind of shoes are you wearing? (Just thinking about the whole jeans and socks thing) If you’re not wearing heels with the underwear outfit it’s not going to have the same wow factor when you do the big reveal…

His just a fwb so I was going to go in jeans trainers and a top as it’s Sunday and we don’t dress to impress. We won’t be going out I’m only going to his house.

I don’t own heels- long story.
I still haven’t decided how I’m doing this. I’m thinking just change there but do it super quick so it doesn’t look like I’m taking a dump!

You have a FWB but you are worried that he thinks you are doing a poo?

Yes, I don’t really want anyone to ever think I’m doing a poo really, especially in THEIR HOUSE!, not a nice thought but each to their own.

I'm pretty sure he will forget about the poo thing pretty quickly.

Stockings and suspenders are tricky to put on/attach. I would really struggle doing it quickly in the bathroom!

If you're really bothered about the poo issue, why don't you just 'spill' something on yourself or ask if you can take a shower to freshen up? Then you can be in the bathroom for as long as you want with no need to refer to bodily functions at all.

Just remember, knickers OVER stockings/suspenders not the other way round. You can then take your knickers off and leave the stockings on. Also handy if you need the loo!

You’ve all been so helpful! Thank you.

Yes to the knickers over the top!

Might be a bit late on this but from a male POV I'd suggest you leave it without socks - he will see them and think something might be up, and in that position I'd find the is-she-isn't-she tension very arousing!

He will see the red stockings I mean.

Also men know that women poo! It doesn't bother us.

Hmm, peeling off jeans while suspenders ping, or lifting up a skirt to have a feel? One of those scenarios is less sexy and loses the point. Get flesh coloured stocking (goes with red) and wear a dress/skirt. Jeans over it all just misses something and is a bit odd really.