I just need some advice really,
So me 26F and my partner 28M and a daughter together nearly 1 year and have been together for just over 4 years.
Our relationship has always been a bit rocky and our daughter was very much a surprise. When I found out I was pregnant my P didn't want to keep it where I did and I was willing to do it on my own, but through a rough pregnancy with issues with inlaws and my partner pretty much hating me for most of it he still stayed (I honestly don't know if it was just out of he felt obligated or not) but anyway,
It it now coming up to our daughter being 1 and I'm having doubts about our entire relationship. I'm not saying I'm perfect at all but I have tried to work on the issues my P says he has but my problem are that he never has helped me with our D like no night feed not weaning her no nappies unless I basically make him/ask him. I'm always the one to get up in the night.
But he works full time and I'm a SAHM (not fully my choice) but I wouldn't change it
My biggest thing is, is that he never helps with anything with our D or around the house. All Ive ever ask him to do occasionally is wash up and he never does. I feel like I've been unhappy in this relationship for a while and always felt like a single parent but I don't know if it'll get any better, I feel guilty if I leave my daughter will hate me in the future for breaking up the family. And I'm just torn on what to do, we have had this conversation multiple times that I'm not happy and things we can do to change things but it never happeneds. Advice please💕
Ps sorry for the rant, I feel very alone