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Not sure what to do

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Lillushwilds · 28/07/2022 09:11

Hi looking for some advice me and my husbad recently got married we have a great relationship well so I thought!
yestetday I was looking at his search history on his phone not for suspicious reason we found a wallpaper we liked and was trying to find a wallapaper we came across On a wed site to order any way his last speech was fabswinngers.com and there seemed to been searching this every other day so I clicked on it and saw his profile up he has naked pictures of him self going back to nearly the start of our relationship am not to sure what the web site is but could see he was searching women in it and liking there naked photos from what I can gather from it you can meet up and chat with people for sex exchange pictures ect 😢
I don’t mind him watching porn as most men do and it was clear he was watching that to .but this is to far I pulled him up about it and he was so embarrassed apologetic kept saying he never actually spoke with any one on it or met up with any one he was as just looking but why be on a site like that for so many years and checking ur every other day if it was just to oook why watch porn aswell please some advice would help please no harsh comments towards me a

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booboo24 · 28/07/2022 12:19

Honestly, if I were you I'd not be hanging around, but I know that's easier said than done. From what I hear about that site on here it's not for 'just looking' that's what porn is for. That fact he's also posting pictures of himself speaks volumes.

Just married and he's already doing this, he is lying and minimising and you deserve a lot better than this.

I really am sorry x

casualreader2022 · 28/07/2022 12:33

Yeah I'm sorry but if I found daily searches and naked online photos from our relationship duration, I'd not be sticking about... It's his normal and he won't stop... And if he did/said he did, would you even believe him now?

girlmom21 · 28/07/2022 12:37

I'd ask him to leave. He's a cheat and a liar.

Watchkeys · 28/07/2022 14:10

Well, if you didn't know about it, he's been hiding it from you for your whole relationship.

That's not how relationships work; he's supposed to want to relate to you, and you him.

I'd leave.

doitwithlove · 28/07/2022 14:17

Very sorry you found this, I would be asking him to leave as you need time to sort your head out, during this time you need to get your finances sorted and see what you are going to do going forward.

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