I met a man through a social group that he runs. As time has gone on he has devoted a lot of time in running the group and putting events on. He said he created the group as people were lonely in lockdown without any real friends and coming out of lockdown they can make friends.
He recently said he does not feel sad or happy but feels empty so don't know if he is using the group to fill a void. I think he suffers from low self esteem and has felt threatened by some of the guys. I think it's good he is making a difference in people's lives.
He said he likes that we share the same vision trying to raise people - I never said that but believe people should be kind. The only thing is he likes me romantically but if we were to become a couple would he be obsessed with running the group still and not have time for me. He said his exes were not happy and banned him from running the group as they felt threatened by the other women.
I don't know why he is so fixated as most people are too busy with their lives to run a social group.