I am working at the same place as this woman for the last 2 years. She's very fun and social but very independant and a bit of a lone wolf at the same time. Sport his her religion so her life turns around it. She does not want a relationship, not many friends. Last march, I told her that I wanted to do more exercices in my life. So she asked me if I want to take a membership at the same local gym with her. Since then, we go on a regular basis to the gym together. Sometines she's the one who's asking me, other times, its me. This friendship really had a positive impact on my life. She inspired me to take more care of myself. I think we have great connection in general. Now, we are both in summer vacation and I didnt ear from her for the past 2 weeks. Yesterday, I proposed to go to the gym and she said yes. She was very closed, I was struggling to talk to her. It was almost like she was trying to start an argument for no reasons. I asked if something was wrong wich she replied "I don 't understand why you still invite me, what you want from me". So I told her all the benefits who came from her friendship. She said Ok and we had normal conversation but still, I was feeling her distant. She said ''see you soon " at the end of the day. What sould I do about that ? I don 't want to loose her, I'm not the kind of person who throws away people who comes into my life. And she truly bring something into my life, something I do not have with my other friends. Maybe leave it there and see what happened when we are back to work ? Writting à letter ? I know she had a tough childhood, do you think she is testing my affection for her?