Caught bf in a lie what would you do?

[mumontherun24]

Hi all I'm seeing someone 7 months all going well until recently when his family came here to visit (I started a thread last week about that) anyway I understand his family are here for a few weeks so he's less available a LOT less available, I'm getting frustrated at not seeing him although he wants to spend a lot of time on the phone to me which annoys me, why can't we see each other in person instead.

Anyway he couldn't see me last weekend to spend time with family but yet he told me he made plans to go meet a friend, fine, the details of the meeting with this friend last weekend keep changing, when I called him on Saturday he said his brother was with him to meet this friend, today.... We are chatting on the phone and he says his brother didn't go...... Before this the story already had too many holes in it for me now this.... What do you guys think?

Have you met any of these people? What are they like?

No I've not met any of them he seems to be keeping us separate, but that's not my issue right now it's the fact he's lying about who was with him so I guess he's also lying about who he went to meet?! I'm thinking it was a woman, why else would he lie and change his story?

I remember your other thread.

You’ve been with him for 7 months and never met his family, never met his friends, he can’t see you of a weekend and is always rushing off during the week. He won’t accept any tags from you or even acknowledge you on social media.

Are you hoping for some different replies this time to the ones on your last thread?

He is either ashamed of you or them. As he is happy to spend lots of time with them it’s a good chance it’s you.

Just end it and find someone who isnt hiding you and lying to you. What do you imagine a relationship to be like with a liar who hides you?

He is married

This whiffs as much as it did last week, are you expecting some kind of 180 degree turnaround where he suddenly realises he's into you enough to spend time with you? What reason can you think of for this bullshit that would be a good explanation?! There isn't one.

Cheating

Cheating or fobbing you off because he's not interested. If he was serious, he would still fit in time to see you and you would trust him. I would stop seeing him, too much hassle.