i think im actually falling back in love with dh!!!!

[moljam]

im always posting about how crap things are with dh,even posting a how do you know its over thread while ago but need to say i think things are looking up!!!!hes had no work for a bit-self employed which is bad as no money and also normally i dread him being off work but im loving it!were getting on so well together and as a family!

anyway no idea why im posting but thought would make a difference rather than posting about how bad things are!

Good for you moljam. Thats nice to hear. I fall in and out of love with my dh all the time. It used to scare me a bit, but now I 'ride the wave'.

well done - am happy for you

we can often post how shit things are becuase there seems to be no point to posting nice stuff - which inevitably gives the readers a one sided POV of a shit relationship.

xxx

great to hear it!

thats lovely and the way it should be - we do fall in and out of love at times and it is so lovely to hear people admit it that just be so focussed on 'doing' something about it.
We have had our troubles and whilst i still think life is too short to be unhappy i thing all too often we are seeking instant pleasures at the cost of something deeper.

Well done again

this happened to me a couple of times, but not for ages......enjoy

shitemum your name is sad,im sure your not!

still going well!the children are happier too so think its good atmosphere in house and life is just seeming easier,being happy rather than down!

that's just great moljam

Hi Moljam - that is great. Haven't seen your previous threads but how bad did it get between you and DH? How did you improve your relationship - any tips for those of us having problems?

Layla17,it got pretty bad.part of it-only small bit-was that he kissed a girl in front of me and i left for 3 days-with everything else that was going on in relationship id had enough and was final straw,no trust at all.i told him that was it,it was over and we were discussing what happens next but i couldnt do it because i was worried about dc.so decided to try again.we sat and discussed what bits of relationship were wrong,what each other did that had to change and ways we could help fix it.not everything we discussed has happened and some things are still same but we now communicate more so can say whats wrong.i really dont think its problem solved but its better than its been in ages and i havent got that have i done right thing in staying in back of my head because i feel at this moment i have.

but i am probably last person for tips!think we just realised we had to try and we had to communicate.