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Is meeting up with ex a bad idea

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Sweetielou · 26/07/2022 12:07

So I posted on here a few times regarding my ex who I separated with just over a year ago . We recently had contact over a few things about emails etc . He messaged me a few weeks ago to ask about his accountant and said it would be nice to catch up soon . He met someone in November which I struggled with and took a lot of work to get where I am now.
I heard he wanted to get a divorce and when I mentioned it he said no not at all . We said we would meet up this week for a chat (not really sure what we are going to chat about ) . Is it a bad idea . He said not to broadcast it and it’s between just us . Part of me thinks it might just give me closure but what if I go and realize I still have feelings for him

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Sweetielou · 27/07/2022 10:41

I’m really not sure . He said he doesn’t want a divorce but who knows what his game is .

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Sweetielou · 30/07/2022 11:01

So now I know why he’s contacting me , he has split up with his partner and wants to take me out for a nice meal . He’s been dumped and now he wants to worm his way back , not a chance !!!!

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Sweetielou · 31/07/2022 20:20

I’ve been so bloody stupid and let my guard down . Now I’m getting I will always love you but this isn’t going to work. Back to feeling bloody rubbish again 😢

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