Hiya all . Looking for some advice on my relationship which is going from bad to worse every week.
I've been with my partner for 5 years and we both have kids from previous marriages. Pre pandemic , everything was fabulous. We got engaged , started to plan moving in together , spent lots of quality family time together. Since restrictions have been lifted last summer everything has went to sh*t .
My partner no longer talks about the future or moving in together, I suggest on a regular basis that we have days out with our kids to which I may as well be speaking to a brick wall , there is zero effort to fix things if there is an issue. Its all a total mess . We are just back from holiday him me and my son , however there was minimal interaction, even things like playing a game of ball in the pool . I would throw the ball to him and he would throw it back and continue with his swim. He would spend 70% of the day in the hotel room on his phone and leave us at the pool ourselves (apparently chatting to his mother ) . Dinner was a struggle as it was constantly me making efforts to start a conversation.
So when we eventually arrived back to the UK , I had it out with him (even though I had previously brought it up during our holiday ) and told him I have no interest in marrying or moving in with someone who behaves like that and if he was talking to his mum all the time , then he deffo is a mummy's boy.
I'm literally at the end of my tether with it all . I do not need a 43yo child
Help ! ❤️