I have been married for 11 years and have two children, one of whom has special needs. My husband only initiated sex 5 times in the 12 years i have known him. He has never been affectionate. He has been sacked from every job he has had since I've known him. I am very educated through sheer hard work.
After he was sacked from his last Job he said he needed to see his psychiatrist that he's known for 16 years . I found out he has bipolar. He has been sectioned two times ..once claiming that a politician was sending him threats to kill him. He refuses to acknowledge he has bipolar. I an now almost certain he is autistic. When I mentioned this he said..I was in a bar once and a stranger said exactly the same thing
I am working hard. He doesn't work. We don't communicate. He sleeps in his own bedroom watching films all night
He doesn't sit with me at all..day or night. I cry..shout...show him how much I am hurting nothing. Yeah yeah yeah. That's what I get.
We argue day and night. I know the kids are feeling it when i tell him to leave he refuses.
I just want him to go. I'm scared. I'm desperate. I don't know how I will cope the final straw today was me asking him to transfer money to me and he said he'd rather have set with me than do that.
I am broken.