Sex drive

[Mo0lly]

Hi, I need advice from other mums/mums to be.
I've just discovered that my partner has been signed up to various porn sites. One is where you request videos from girls. I have spoken to him about it and he has just said that he is struggling with the fact we aren't having sex as much as we used to. Basically blaming the pregnancy even though sometimes he doesn't come to bed at the same time as me. I'm 15 weeks pregnant and was feeling like I had a low sex drive for a week or so. I feel really hurt and don't know if I'm over reacting. I know being pregnant can make you a lot more emotional!

You're not over reacting, he's being a selfish arse. Is he paying for these porn sites?

I'm actually not sure if he does or not. He claims he has only paid once.

It sounds like he’s been caught and used the one off as an excuse to be honest. There’s enough naughty material out there to satisfy most needs without paying for it. Speak to him, he may literally be thinking with his cock ( which as bad as it sounds) sometimes can be quite typical (granted no less hurtful) but dialogue and being open with each other is the only way forward

You had a low sex drive for a week or so, and he's blamed it on that! That's pretty shitty, and quite telling of the type of man child he's going to be in the future.

Many folks differ in their view of porn. Pay for request stuff is something that I think crosses a boundary IMHO though, as it's more interactive than watching prerecorded. I wouldn't be happy about that.

This relationship is doomed. Sorry, it's just the truth. Start planning aggressively to be a single mum because that's where this is heading.

All the best op