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Pregnancy and relationships, sex , thinking all sorts

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Scorpio8 · 24/07/2022 06:51

Since finding out I was pregnant I have put aside my issues that I had with partner.
He is very excited about the baby I am too. I know he doesn't like me worrying however he has a lot on his plate already with recently losing his mum.
I am also worried about sex because at the moment I just don't want it because of a scare I had and waiting until after the 12 week scan.My partner went away to just work at event for a night. He was going to stay with a guy but ending up staying with some old lady. Her daughter was there and yesterday was quite jealous him talking about how he went and showed her how to get somewhere. He was honest about it all but didn't like it. So trying to put that aside it but he kept going on about her the whole evening. I did go quiet and think he knows I'm not happy. Trying to put aside that feeling because to focus on pregnancy and my teenager too. As he will be away again next weekend. I just don't want him to get tempted because he not getting sex here. I know probably he might be and whatever he chooses to do will deal with it. My main focus is my pregnancy and teenager.
I suppose I been reading threads here. The night my partner was away I was in tears. There was an FWB thread and I put and experience but it brought a lot of memories and feelings back and realized I do miss that person and what would they say about my current situation. I think they moved back to where they are from because of Brexit.

Really trying to not stress myself out with overthinking about my Partner or previous partners. With previous partners it's because for a long time I knew something was wrong with my fertility and ignored it. Then with my partner now had a recent laparoscopy so it's like what we wanted but still a shock it actually happened and do wonder what my ex and other partners will say. Sounds crazy but it's playing on my mind.

Do you think it's just pregnancy hormones?
Anyone feel like this?

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Shoxfordian · 24/07/2022 07:08

It sounds like you don’t trust your partner
Has he cheated before?

Scorpio8 · 24/07/2022 08:15

@Shoxfordian
I try to think of what he doing in fact I occupy myself so a lot better now.

The event he worked at I was happy he called me even once. What I did like was him saying I will call you back he didn't until 8am he responded to text. If he said talk to you in morning think I be okay.
I just occupy myself when he goes away I know he coming home so not like before.

But when he said this lady daughter was there got so suspicious..

I think he liked her to have gone on about her but I know he like that anyway with female friends.

I even said to him just after I posted that I know we not having sex don't be tempted. Think he knows something up as he just hugged me and I turned the phone away so he wouldn't see.

Like I said it's probably pregnancy hormones or just having a down day. I am being over sensitive because he did tell me everything.

I think it's a long time being pregnant and feeling a bit grounded. Can't do certain things as I got to be careful and maybe resentful at him having all this fun. I am just glad he bringing money home too.

A little bit emotional today.

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Scorpio8 · 24/07/2022 08:16

@Shoxfordian
I try not to think what he doing

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Scorpio8 · 24/07/2022 11:31

I probably need time-out for myself. Overthinking many things is not helping..so will go out and have a good day.__

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