Hey all, long story short me and DH have been together for nearly 10 years we have a 5 and 1 Yr old with another on the way (4 months pregnant)
Honestly I'm so exhausted all of the time I've found this pregnancy harder than any before. I feel quite unsupported and like DH is quite insensitive. He says I complain all the time and I need to be stronger, he even mentioned last week that most people would not even put up with me for how much I winghe. I do a little but I think I do it more because I know I get hardlies no emotional support, no support with housework because he works full time. I'm overrun with housework the house is a mess since I fell pregnant because of how ill I've been.
Sick of being ignored by DH all the time he seems to spend loads of time on his phone and all he's interested in is going to gym. I feel like there's hardlies any communication between us and he isn't really interested in this baby. Never asks how I'm feeling or does anything that would make me feel better like a massage. He asks me to do everything, make drinks, go get things for him. I'm the one who is responsible for making dinners even when I'm ill. Sometimes he even leaves and goes to gym when I'm really poorly and doesn't even bother to ask whether I would need him to stay.
We had an argument last night because we were all supposed to go out for a meal as a family and my baby boy was very upset so I couldn't get ready until DH came home, and he made a huge fuss about me doing my hair quick before going out saying its not like we're gong to a wedding just put some clothes on quick let's go, and just being negative and rude and put me in a mood where I ended up not wanting to go out anymore. I said to him that he's being horrible recently and he was saying that's not even horrible and he can be a lot worse if he wanted to?! So I was like wtf why would you want to be more horrible to your pregnant wife? Like I didnt even do anything wrong just took my hair out of a greasy bun sprayed some dry shampoo and straightened it.
I ended up shouting at him saying why the fuck would you want to be horrible like as If I even deserve that?!
I ended up not speaking to him after that I took our DD out to see family instead and came home quite late and went to bed, he slept on the sofa.
I'm just fed up now I feel like there's no respect. Last week his friend stayed with us and DH was so rude to me in front of his friend all of the time. Constantly ignoring everything I was saying, showed no interest in how I was doing, had me running around after them both. I just feel like I'm being taken advantage of and get little to no respect and just basic kindness from him.