so I’m not sure if this is the correct place to post this but I feel like I really need some advice , I have recently opened up to my mother that I experienced sexual abuse from someone within our family whiles growing up on a regular basis , I never had any intentions of ever telling her about this as I don’t feel comfortable talking about it but the an ex girlfriend of the person involved has recently said that he also sexually abused her during the relationship so I felt I had to speak up about it because he has not changed and it’s affecting other women . My mum instantly accused his ex of lying ( the sun shines out of this male in the family’s arse to her ) untill I told her that I experienced it too from the same person , I am currently heavily pregnant so don’t want the stress and I don’t plan on going to the police to push this any further especially at the minute I don’t want to put any stress on my unborn child . I begged her not to say anything as it wasn’t her place and to find out she has told the person I’ve accused them of this I am furious as it wasn’t her place and has now put me in this situation where all I want to do is cut her off she doesn’t see the severity of exposing this has done