Probably should be in legal but I'll ask here first.........

[Paddlechick666]

I have a free intro session with a divorce lawyer a week on Monday.

What, if any, docs etc do I need to take with me?

TIA

Dont think I took any docs for first meeting but somewhere down the line you will need your marriage certificate. What is useful is writing a list of questions you want to ask.

probably a proof of identity (passport or driving licence) and a proof of address (utility bill).

thanks, good idea for the list of questions.

will have a think. don't even know where to start!

Divorce lawyer here!

If you want to be really organised and if this person is to take on your case then they will need your passport and a utility bill (for id purposes).

To start a divorce they will need the marriage certificate and to advise on finances they will need your financial documentation including 12 months bank statements, wage slips and documents to confirm all assets and liabilities. You might also want to prepare a list of your income and outgoings.

Take a list of questions so you don't forget.

Good luck - make sure you get on with the solicitor and you feel comfortable dealing with them.

Do what Layla says! and when you have to start paying, make sure you are focussed and prepared - what do you need to cover/ask, and what information can you take along (or send in advance).

Also before you start paying be clear on who is going to pay the legal costs - are you and he going to split them, are you each going to pay your own, or what?

It can get very expensive very quickly, so use your time wisely