I joined a Facebook social group a few months ago to widen my social circle. The group organiser added me on Facebook. We have messaged a lot online as we have similar interests.
The second time I met him after 10 minutes he said 'I really like you'. I asked him what he meant and he backtracked saying he liked me as a group organiser as I have helped run his group. I was flattered he said he liked me and I do like him a lot too but I don't know if it's too soon to be feeling that way not having met in person much?
I'm also concerned as he had a fling for a few months which she dumped him in May as he wanted a relationship from her and I feel he is still hung up on it as he says bitter things as another man showed her interest then she dumped him. He resents this other man. He posts a lot of mixed messages in the group saying he likes being alone and doesn't do relationships but will then say he misses romance etc. He said he has been cheated on multiple times.
We have so much in common and he is really kind and caring but I don't want to rush into something when I may be a rebound.