I've been with my partner for 8 years now and we have a 1 year old DD.
We argue a lot. He didn't initially want a baby. He then said he would if I lost weight.
Anyway I could bulk this out with loads of past issues but I'll jump to the most recent.
I am going back to work part time because we can afford it. Started about a month ago. He still expects me to do the nights, mornings and weekends as I did on maternity leave because he's the reason we can afford me to work less.
There are other issues but if I share all of them it could be outing but basically when I try and raise stuff, we have a massive row. He always gets mad and shouts and swears at me and calls me names. Then he tells me it's my fault because I always cause a row and have issues...he just wants to spend his time doing what he loves and doesn't want me to raise anything. He calls it me "starting aggro" every time. Because this has been ongoing now, i often bottle it up and sometimes I try to raise stuff in a civil way and sometimes I may just make a sarcastic comment when I've reached the end of my tether...this will cause explosive rows where he calls.me some of the worst names imaginable.