Currently seeing 2 men.
Man 1 - childhood friend who I have known for over a decade. We dated for a bit during teenage years but have since remained good friends. On my part friends, to him has always been much more sexual. We have good friendly banter but can’t really have any of those deep conversations. I’ve always been able to rely on him and he is probably my longest friend. After we dated we had a sort of fwb situation but when I started to develop strong feelings for him, I then ended the sexual part and we have remained only friends since then despite his many flirty advances.
Man 2 - perfect. Everything I’ve ever wanted and I’ve never met anyone like him. He constantly showers me with compliments. He has never been with anyone else, very shy. We can talk about anything for hours and not get bored. However, I have noticed a few red flags. He can go weeks not messaging me and has previously ignored me for a few months. When I confronted him about this he said he was scared things were getting too serious and felt I didn’t like him back as much as he liked me. He has also been late too plans, changed last minute those sorts of minor things that Man 1 has never done.
its getting to the point where I can’t keep seeing both and need to make a decision on who I want to pursue a serious relationship with.