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Original poster

Handhold / Support please

15 replies

2lipsinamsterdam · 15/07/2022 00:58

I'm ok (in another room) but thirty minutes ago I was subjected to domestic abuse - shouting, screaming and he threw a plate of food. I have messaged my sister but it is obviously late so she hasn't replied.

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Bunty55 · 15/07/2022 00:59

Are you ok now. Are you safe ?

Original poster
2lipsinamsterdam · 15/07/2022 01:01

I am safe thank you. He is still here in another part of the flat.

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OldFan · 15/07/2022 01:01

That's awful. Sad Is there someone else you could call? x

MissSmiley · 15/07/2022 01:07

@2lipsinamsterdam are you definitely safe? What if he starts again? Can you leave?

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2lipsinamsterdam · 15/07/2022 01:07

No, unfortunately, but I'm ok. His behaviour is unacceptable and I have told him.

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ThisBooksCanDo · 15/07/2022 01:10

Call the police!

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2lipsinamsterdam · 15/07/2022 01:11

I can't leave as I don't have anywhere else to go. I told him I would call the police and press charges if it continued.

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Karmakamelion · 15/07/2022 01:12

The police will remove him. Do you have children with you?

WinterMusings · 15/07/2022 01:17

Call the police, they will remove him.

please tell us this is The End of your 'relationship'. You might love him, you might be convinced by his 'apology' and his 'oh babe, you know I can't live without you' bullocks. But it WILL escalate.

whose name is the flat in?

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2lipsinamsterdam · 15/07/2022 01:17

I do not have any children.

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OldFan · 15/07/2022 01:20

I would still suggest calling the police @2lipsinamsterdam . It'd get you out of the situation.

You've told him not to do it again, but he already knew it wasn't ok and that didn't stop him doing it. x

Bunty55 · 15/07/2022 01:21

Question is, what are you going to do about this?

Original poster
2lipsinamsterdam · 15/07/2022 01:23

The relationship is over. The flat is rented (both names). I'm studying part-time with The OU (year six in October) and looking for work.

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Original poster
2lipsinamsterdam · 15/07/2022 01:32

Thank you for all your help and advice. x

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MissSmiley · 15/07/2022 01:38

Will you be able to sleep? We're here if you just want to chat

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