Bi sexual

[jennyofthenorth]

So I grew up in a "You marry a man, you have kids, thats the way it is household"
sex never really interested me much unless it was masturbation. I have a hard time forming relationships with men. I form great relationships with women. Ive kissed women before and enjoyed it. I guess Im curious for those of you who are bi, how did you know?

I think you are mixing up sexuality and relationships.
Sexually - you get attracted to men or women. This just happens - it’s not something one can influence. Wanting to kiss ; to touch and be touched; to have sex.
Sounds like you haven’t had much experience yet, so with time you’ll get a clearer on your sexuality .
As to relationships - there are so many reasons why we may struggle. Our family history, experiences, expectations, our daily habits, etc.
Having easier time forming connections with own gender - it’s normal and understandable. It doesn’t may you gay or bi. Not by itself anyway.

I think you are mixing up sexuality and relationships.

This. You've said about women but do you kiss and enjoy kissing men?

Curious haha

Like men too much for my own good

Give a woman a try
What have you got to lose

When I was in high school, I fell in love with the most beautiful girl. It's been a lot of time since that times, but I still remember her. I think I'm a bi curious just because of her. I'm married now, I'm very happy to have my husband, but I cannot forget her

As far as kissing men, theres only been one that I enjoyed kissing,, which is sad cause i dated 4 and was engaged to man 5

I know this sounds wildly simplistic but try sleeping with a woman and see how you feel. It’s the only way to be sure....

I think most of us are brought up to the assumption we are heterosexual.

lt was not until my 30s (l’m 40 something now) that l experienced my first female/female encounter. I was working far away from home and I was invited for a pizza and a video. It started with her stroking my hair and took took me by surprise and the pizza got cold. I never saw the end of the film.

Looking back, as a teen, a group of us used to do “kissing practice” with other girls. Allegedly so we were good at snogging with boys. I now look back on those early days and wonder.

Since then, l have enjoyed encounters with both genders. I look upon myself as “sexual”. No prefix required. As the old saying goes OP, if you don’t go, you’ll never know.

Sexual (want to have sex with someone) and romantic attraction (loving them, wanting to be in a relationship with them) are two seperated things.

Start THINKING from that.
Do you feel sexual attraction (forger actual physical right now) toward either or, or both?

Have you felt / would you like an relationship / live with man or a woman, or either.

And also to your op, we sadly still live in highly amatonormativity society, where we (especially girl and women) are told to have a boyfriend, have sex - love sex, get married and have babies.

Actually start asking yourself do you even want any of those things.

I had my own struggles for years and what I found out was that I’m asexual (feel no sexual attraction to anyone) but I am homoromantic and would love to date/ be in love have romantic attraction towards other women.