Bf problem

[Pocahonts20]

My boyfriend doesn't post pictures of me and him on his fb but still as pictures of his ex gf snd him on there this girl who left him for someone else and she as him living in the house her and my bf have a mortgage on

They’re still living together?!

No he lives with me she still lives in the house with her new bf.. which he owns half of the house

My bf owns half the house

Sounds like you just don't trust him.

She also got a court order on him for 5 years so he isn't allowed near his own house but she as moved her new bf in.
The court order was because he followed her to see if she was meeting the same man he court get cheating with before
So yeah
Why would he keep pictures of them both together after that?
We been together a years and half now and hasn't once posted a picture of us on his fb
But had loads of them two
It's weird

I think I'd be slightly more concerned about the restraining order than who's posting what on Facebook

I don’t think this is necessarily a big deal to still have photos of an ex in your Facebook photo history. As long as his current profile picture isn’t with his ex I don’t think it matters. How long ago were they together/ did he upload those photos of them together? People change and move into new phases of life, when I was younger in my early twenties I uploaded photos of me and my then-boyfriend (now ex) but there is no way I would upload photos of me and a partner now as I think it seems tacky. I think in recent years that Facebook has fallen slightly out of fashion too and people are more likely to use other social media apps such as Instagram over it and update their Facebook profiles less frequently then they may have 5-10 years ago.

That said, why does he still own half of the house she lives in? Why hasn’t he asked her to either but him out it sell the house? Were they married? Or do they have kids together? It seems odd he hasn’t tried to sell his part of the house in some way.

The photos aren't an issue. 5 years is a really long time for an injunction though so I'd be wary of him to be honest.

So he stalked her, and you’re wondering why he still has pictures of her on his Facebook?!

This.

How does that not bother you more than the lack of facebook evidence of your relationship? He has a court order for stalking, and I'd be willing to bet there's more to the story.

This situation sounds messy and dangerous. I'd move on OP.

Why are you dating a stalker?

She also got a court order on him for 5 years so he isn't allowed near his own house but she as moved her new bf in.
The court order was because he followed her to see if she was meeting the same man he court get cheating with before

If this thread is genuine, you are astonishingly naive.
NOBODY gets a ban from entering - let alone approaching - their OWN HOUSE without doing something utterly illegal, dangerous & dire.

A court order of 5 years duration is really, really, hard to get.
He's either lying, or he is a dangerous man.
Either way - lose this man, lose the drama, & focus on somebody who doesn't need a court order to keep his away from women.

So he follows her once and ends up in court for it where it's decided he can't go anywhere near his own property or her for 5 years?!

Seriously OP does that sound right to you? Think about it. People can't get the police to attend their homes when burgled, so do you really think that they're going to prosecute someone who just followed their ex once?

Please take your Rose tinted glasses off and pack his bags. Have you googled him?

"I'm dating a dangerous man but my biggest concern is he's not posting pictures of me on Facebook, he's only posting photos of his ex (the one who got him a 5 yr restraining order)"

Consider yourself lucky then.