Hi everyone. I’ve been with my husband 11 years, he has recently came out as bisexual - some things have changed in our relationship and we’ve been talking them out & discussing problems as they arise. I’ve been supporting him through coming out. My question is… he’s told me that sometimes he feels lack of connection between us and doesn’t feel anything for me when we are intimate or kissing etc, but then it comes back this can be a day/few days at a time. I’m not sure how to take it? Is this a normal feeling due to sexuality? I feel abit taken back by it & asif maybe I’m not enough ? He has assured me he’s happy & wants to be with me and it’s just the way he is ? He can be very hot & cold.
please be kind !