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Bisexual husband

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Mumof2ria · 12/07/2022 13:16

Hi everyone. I’ve been with my husband 11 years, he has recently came out as bisexual - some things have changed in our relationship and we’ve been talking them out & discussing problems as they arise. I’ve been supporting him through coming out. My question is… he’s told me that sometimes he feels lack of connection between us and doesn’t feel anything for me when we are intimate or kissing etc, but then it comes back this can be a day/few days at a time. I’m not sure how to take it? Is this a normal feeling due to sexuality? I feel abit taken back by it & asif maybe I’m not enough ? He has assured me he’s happy & wants to be with me and it’s just the way he is ? He can be very hot & cold.

please be kind !

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BlindGirlMcSqueaky · 12/07/2022 13:19

No that's not normal because of bisexuality. We're exactly the same as any other person.

JustKittenAround · 12/07/2022 13:31

I’m bisexual. It doesn’t change my current committed relationship.

if your post is real (the amount of easy hatred and larping towards bisexual Israel and documented so I’m wary) it means that you need to see this for what it actually is.

it is a man telling you he no longer wants you romantically but is totally cool with not being a present and supportive partner. Being bisexual means he should be as present as a straight partner. He has committed to you.

this should be a conversation about how to support you.

please wake up and don’t let the politically correct machine actually hurt you, your health, and your future.

if he is Bi, he is either committed to you as his only partner who he can sexually satisfy happily or he isn’t. Don’t do this to yourself and DON’T allow bisexuality to be coopted into a tool to abuse and gaslight partners.

im sick of this shit.

JustKittenAround · 12/07/2022 13:31

Is real not Israel lol

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