Is there more to life?

[Hoppy34]

Would you stay in a marriage if you wasn’t in love with your partner anymore? There is nothing bad to say about him. He is a kind / generous / hard working man who loves his family dearly. I just don’t think the love is there anymore and hasn’t been for quite some time. I think he would agree if pushed as well. We have young children and a mortgage which ultimately is what stops me leaving but should people stay in a loveless marriage just for that?

It depends on what you're expecting as an alternative. If it's a passionate affair with a man that has all your partners good qualities too then I think the chances are low. Passionate, fiery, best sex you ever had guy is neither reliable nor compatible with an easy life. If you want to leave and would be happy to be single and see what comes along then yes go for it. What do you want from your life that your current life isn't providing?