How do I plan an exit

[confidentwoman]

I know I'm ready to leave. This morning was the last straw, we live together so I can't just say bye we're not together anymore but live under the same roof, he always slides back in by being nice. Should I just make the moves to move out and tell him on the last day? Or tell him that's what I'm doing in advance?

I'd move out then tell him afterwards.

Why are you separating? Do you have any worries about his behaviour towards you?

He's just emotionally abusive to put it straight. I'm not worried about him getting physical or anything like that. I stuck around for so long because I just thought things would change but I've realised they never will unless I do something about it which is removing him from my life

They say with abusers to not tell them. You should just go depending on how severe it is. I am recently away from an abusive relationship and he's still making my life hard by not communicating about his things at my house.

You just need to get sorted and then perhaps leave znd message him when it's safe to do so. Don't suffer alone. There are charities that can help.

So I’m assuming you’re not married ?
Do you rent or own ? Any kids ?