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Daily sex thread

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TMSHH · 08/07/2022 21:02

Not appropriate for me to post on the other thread....but it has triggered me. My mum slept on the living room floor for years when I was a child. But every night she would go to my dad's room at 10.45pm. I alwyas assumed she was sorting out her clothes for the next day. But found out years later that she went there because he expected sex. Every day. 15 minutes, then she went back downstairs. She wont talk about it. How can someone live like that? Him or her?

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BurnDownTheDiscoHangTheDJ · 08/07/2022 21:03

Why did she sleep on the floor downstairs? Was your dad abusive in other ways? I’m sorry you had to be aware of something not quite being right and am sorry for your mum too. Sounds really tough.

TMSHH · 08/07/2022 21:07

Yes he punched her when he was pissed, which was often

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WomanHere · 08/07/2022 21:07

Ok, don’t know what the setup here is. It is possible that she wanted sex although the sleeping downstairs is odd. It’s not unusual to not discuss your sex life with your children, surely no parent wants to do that and no offspring want to hear it.

WomanHere · 08/07/2022 21:08

Sorry just seen your update. Very sad.

TMSHH · 08/07/2022 21:11

Yeh sorry, should have been clearer that she definitely didn't want to have sex with him. She had to.

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Lovemypeaceandquiet · 08/07/2022 21:11

That’s awful …Are they still together?

TMSHH · 08/07/2022 21:24

No she found the guts to leave him, and having made the decision she said no to the nightly visit until she actually left. I over heard him saying how he'd had to resort to wanking....what was wrong with him??

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UserError012345 · 08/07/2022 21:32

What a vile human. So pleased she finally left him.

Kitten2 · 08/07/2022 21:52

Horrible that you had to hear that / be aware of this

CousinKrispy · 08/07/2022 22:26

I'm so sorry OP.

I think this happened/happens a fair bit and it's always tragic.

It's not consensual if there's coercion and that's an awful thing.

I'm glad your mum had the strength to get away and I hope the two of you have been able to heal.

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